For a long time I have opposed the idea of being with someone whom you don't know at all. I have always believed that you need to be in love with someone to stay with them.Thats why I never got the idea of an arrange marriage. But things changed some time ago......
Here is an incident from my life. My parents had an arrange marriage and for a long time I always thought that they both had somehow compromised. Well I was WRONG. I learnt this on a new year party where everyone was playing Truth&Dare. My Best friend's mom was dared to give a rose to guy she loves the most in her life and she gave it to Gunu(My best friend). I along with all the other people was not surprised about this, as he is her son and she loves him a lot. After the party, when I returned back home, me and mom started to discuss about the party and I asked her if she had been dared, who would have been the lucky one. In my mind I was sure that like Gunu's mother, I would be the chosen one but to my surprise she said that it would be my DAD. I had always thought the factor with alligned them both together was the repect and admiration for each other and not love but that day I realised that love had blossemed big time between the two since a long time (even before I was born).
Here is an incident from my life. My parents had an arrange marriage and for a long time I always thought that they both had somehow compromised. Well I was WRONG. I learnt this on a new year party where everyone was playing Truth&Dare. My Best friend's mom was dared to give a rose to guy she loves the most in her life and she gave it to Gunu(My best friend). I along with all the other people was not surprised about this, as he is her son and she loves him a lot. After the party, when I returned back home, me and mom started to discuss about the party and I asked her if she had been dared, who would have been the lucky one. In my mind I was sure that like Gunu's mother, I would be the chosen one but to my surprise she said that it would be my DAD. I had always thought the factor with alligned them both together was the repect and admiration for each other and not love but that day I realised that love had blossemed big time between the two since a long time (even before I was born).
1 comment:
Hey Sid,...out of all your posts..this is the one i liked the most...its simple yet it is so special....and your observation and realisation has an instant connect on things we miss out and presumptions we make....keep up the good work dude.. :)
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