Since YOU bin gone……

Since YOU bin gone……

I don’t understand why people who take rational decisions most of the time loose their brain to take important decisions irrationally when in Love. My life is similar to what one would call ‘Story of faded GLORY’ because of these irrationalities.

Someone once told me that whatever you do or whatever you become in life, you at least need a person back home with whom you can share your piece of mind. After living in Germany for the past 4 months, I realised that Life is not about existing but about living. One needs to complete the circle of life.

I never thought I would meet someone after she left my life. I have always lived in yesterday but this time it was special, I actually thought about future with HER. I once got drunk and called HER to tell HER that SHE is not the person I would spend my life with, prob. to honour my EGO, but things changed drastically after that.

Like other people, I also started taking decisions which many of you would consider irrational. Since SHE is working, I needed to settle fast, so I thought of dropping my masters and joining IMS asap so as to come on my feet. I had my future plans altered just for HER. I thought of dropping my plans for MBA and getting an expat work-X on my resume to get a better job back home. Yesterday, I even went online to book a flight to India to be back with her to tell her how I feel about her. Truthfully speaking, I would have gone ahead with it BUT ....

A couple of days ago, one of my X msged me saying that she wants to be back with me. Yesterday when I called her to tell my decision, I would be someone special soon, at about same time SHE told me that it cannot work out between us as SHE is being pressured by HER parents to get married. Well initially I thought that I would talk to HER about it and try to convince her to talk to HER parents but then I thought it’s HER decision in the end and deciding it for HER would morally presumptuous.

Well I don’t know how to tell HER that Future with HER would be amazing as SHE very well completes me as a person. SHE is smart, beautiful and the most imp. The ONE with whom I can share my peace of mind. But like past I have left decision to HER….

My views on India biggest FAG enabler !!!!!

“Hate the sin and not the sinner” This is undoubtedly one of the best quotes that Gandhi. Though in today’s world, it doesn’t have that much standing with authorities not trying to solve the problem ‘Why there is terrorism?’ But rather trying to kill as many terrorists as possible. Like Gandhi, I also think that it is not going to solve the problem as the IDEA behind it all stays put.

Over the years I have read many critiques point that Gandhi was responsible for the partition of India, if he had the will he could have stopped the execution of Bhagat Singh etc etc. But recently, I read something totally ridiculous that Gandhi was the biggest promoter of Fags in India (http://www.godhatestheworld.com/india/index.html), its also funny at the same time.

I have never been a big fan of (Mahatma) Gandhi myself, not because I am follower of Veer Sarvarker, Hindu Mahasabha or even RSS but he is much more than what is and was perceived by the World. After reading a lot about the history of India, I came across a person by the name of Chanakya. I am sure most of you reading know this character even though is not a king of a big empire. In many terms he was similar to Gandhi. He never ruled a kingdom but was the chief architect in the creation of the Gupta Empire after he sworn to take revenge on The Nanda King. Similarly Gandhi was also the never ruled India but again was the main person behind the revolution. Most of you would find it amazing that Gandhi never took stood in the Indian National Congress elections though he was present in most of them. In 1942, he came in support of the person standing against Mr. Bose and told everyone to vote for the guy as if you are voting for me and still lost the elections though Mr. Bose resigned after a couple of months due to opposition by the Gandhian followers.

I would term these people as ‘KINGMAKER’ and find them interesting because these are the people who make essential decisions but if they end up screwing something, its always the KING who is always blamed. In current times, I find people like Sonia Gandhi and Amar Singh following the same philosophy.

THNINK ABOUT IT ….

The day I realised how Arrange marriages work?

For a long time I have opposed the idea of being with someone whom you don't know at all. I have always believed that you need to be in love with someone to stay with them.Thats why I never got the idea of an arrange marriage. But things changed some time ago......

Here is an incident from my life. My parents had an arrange marriage and for a long time I always thought that they both had somehow compromised. Well I was WRONG. I learnt this on a new year party where everyone was playing Truth&Dare. My Best friend's mom was dared to give a rose to guy she loves the most in her life and she gave it to Gunu(My best friend). I along with all the other people was not surprised about this, as he is her son and she loves him a lot. After the party, when I returned back home, me and mom started to discuss about the party and I asked her if she had been dared, who would have been the lucky one. In my mind I was sure that like Gunu's mother, I would be the chosen one but to my surprise she said that it would be my DAD. I had always thought the factor with alligned them both together was the repect and admiration for each other and not love but that day I realised that love had blossemed big time between the two since a long time (even before I was born).

What I know: My DreamGirl

1. Afraid to try a saree, although she looks really pretty in it. I remember she went to her Farewell and was wearing a saree. It was a perfect evening for her but thank god I would say as soon as she landed in the car, wuala!!! the whole thing opened like a Mirabilis Jalapa

2. She speaks a lot (By ‘A LOT’ I mean that if were allowed to bitch about other girls she could easily break the 600 word/min. world record) but as soon as you come to know her, her words would feel like a melodious singing of the Koyal bird.

3. Wait till the time you meet her and what she perceives out of you. She has a totally different perspective of receiving things and the worst part she goes 180 degrees in the opposite direction whenever I end up saying something to her.

4. Have rarely seen her crying but I think she has cried in front of me the max. no. of times. She is pretty close to ehr dad and 1st time she cried (ofcourse infront of me) was because of him only. The funny part is that she opens her mouth so big that one can land a big ROSUGULLA in her mouth.

5. She is also one of the strongest person’s but I know she is afraid of this certain thing which I cant explain. Her past is far too complex for me as a matter of fact for any normal person I know, so she has this feeling that everything suddenly will fall apart and that's why she takes ugly perspective of things. So as a friend I have always been there make her feel safe, as much as I can.
   

P.S - Its not Tina Fey, but she is definatley not less than Tina Fey

Rupeya, Daulat, Takat milne se log badalte nahi hai ... log zahir ho jate hain..

I heard this well on a Youtube video by Zaid Hamid(The most unpopular Man in India whereas being the most liked Man in Pakistan). Being an Indian still I kinda like him not because of HATE words against India but because of his speaking with conviction and effectively pesuading me sometimes through. Well I am not here to talk about, I don't want people talking about Indo-Pak politics on my blog.

For the people who don't understand desi (Hindi, Punjabi, Urdu), it means Getting money, power etc doesn't change people, it a just reveals their true nature. This statement works everywhere ranging from country politics to local office politics.

The problem with PEOPLE is that they think they are in POWER (Especially in Democratic Nations) but the fact is that every organization (Be it country, company or any other kind of organization) is divided into Minority of Directors and Majority of being Directed. If one looks at the Indian political system, there are corrupt politicians (According to Ayn Rand, The LOOTERS of the society) like Lalu Prasad Yadav, Sharad Pawar etc about who everybody know this fact but still they have been in power and corrupting the whole nation.

Well I thought about it that in a country like India its pretty easy to become powerful. Simplest way is to make PEOPLE depend on YOU, give them a favor or lend money etc,this would definitely lead to you becoming popular and powerful in the region. The biggest example I heard was from Haryana(India) where a national industrialist, Naveen jindal, MP from Kurukstatra gives Rs 5000(approx $120) to every villager who's daughter is getting married. The villager needs to just give him a card for the marriage which ofcourse he would not attend and in exachage would give the villager the cheque. Well similarly there are other ways also. Like be an expert in something i.e provide scarce resources. This way would definitely lead to become a powerful person in the organization you work for. Well here is a fictional character called Ellsworth Toohey (The Fountainhead) who became popular by the using the fact that in every orgamnization the people of are very skilled, are respected, and therefore if a person has alternative motive, as he was, can take the advantage of the situation, as he does in the end. You are basically an Expert if you are to provide scarce resources or you are able to statisfy the strategic needs of the company like Toohey does by inputting his ideas to incease the ciculation of the newspapers.

Well I would like to finish with this amazing saying by Niccoló Macchiavelli "There is no other way for securing yourself against flatteries except that men understand that they do not offend you by telling you the truth; but when everybody can tell you the truth, you fail to get respect.”