The day I realised how Arrange marriages work?

For a long time I have opposed the idea of being with someone whom you don't know at all. I have always believed that you need to be in love with someone to stay with them.Thats why I never got the idea of an arrange marriage. But things changed some time ago......

Here is an incident from my life. My parents had an arrange marriage and for a long time I always thought that they both had somehow compromised. Well I was WRONG. I learnt this on a new year party where everyone was playing Truth&Dare. My Best friend's mom was dared to give a rose to guy she loves the most in her life and she gave it to Gunu(My best friend). I along with all the other people was not surprised about this, as he is her son and she loves him a lot. After the party, when I returned back home, me and mom started to discuss about the party and I asked her if she had been dared, who would have been the lucky one. In my mind I was sure that like Gunu's mother, I would be the chosen one but to my surprise she said that it would be my DAD. I had always thought the factor with alligned them both together was the repect and admiration for each other and not love but that day I realised that love had blossemed big time between the two since a long time (even before I was born).

What I know: My DreamGirl

1. Afraid to try a saree, although she looks really pretty in it. I remember she went to her Farewell and was wearing a saree. It was a perfect evening for her but thank god I would say as soon as she landed in the car, wuala!!! the whole thing opened like a Mirabilis Jalapa

2. She speaks a lot (By ‘A LOT’ I mean that if were allowed to bitch about other girls she could easily break the 600 word/min. world record) but as soon as you come to know her, her words would feel like a melodious singing of the Koyal bird.

3. Wait till the time you meet her and what she perceives out of you. She has a totally different perspective of receiving things and the worst part she goes 180 degrees in the opposite direction whenever I end up saying something to her.

4. Have rarely seen her crying but I think she has cried in front of me the max. no. of times. She is pretty close to ehr dad and 1st time she cried (ofcourse infront of me) was because of him only. The funny part is that she opens her mouth so big that one can land a big ROSUGULLA in her mouth.

5. She is also one of the strongest person’s but I know she is afraid of this certain thing which I cant explain. Her past is far too complex for me as a matter of fact for any normal person I know, so she has this feeling that everything suddenly will fall apart and that's why she takes ugly perspective of things. So as a friend I have always been there make her feel safe, as much as I can.
   

P.S - Its not Tina Fey, but she is definatley not less than Tina Fey